Don’t get too high and mighty, ladies. Don’t step out of line. Don’t do anything to upset or disappoint men who feel entitled to your time, bodies, affection or attention. Your bared body can always be used as a weapon against you. You bared body can always be used to shame and humiliate you. Your bared body is at once desired and loathed.


  • Do not forget Michael Brown
  • Do not forget how the media dehumanized him and tried to justify his murder
  • Do not forget how peaceful protests were painted as savage riots
  • Do not forget police armed with military grade weapons terrorized and arrested black civilians
  • Do not forget Darren Wilson being awarded over $400,000 in fundraiser donations for murdering an unarmed black child
  • Do not forget that this system was not built to defend us, but to control us
  • Do not forget Ferguson 


By Agata Serge


small framed models are used in ads so that the focus stays on the product being advertised, not the sexually appealing curves of the model



bold what you prefer

coffee or tea

books or movies 

fruits or vegetables

headphones or earbuds

laptops or pc

facebook or tumblr

netflix or tv (i would probably say netflix if netflix was more accessable in nz) 

hardcover or paperback or ebooks

tv or movies

hp or thg

light or dark

salt or pepper

starbucks or dunkin donuts

reading or writing

writing or drawing

hot or cold

talking or listening

instruments orvoice

cake or cupcakes

black or white

sunset or sunrise

I’m grateful to my red hair now. And I doubt I’d have been offered half the roles I’ve played without it. It helps you stand out in the crowd in ways that used to make me cry when I was the only ‘ginger’ in a 40-mile radius at school. Now I’ve reached an age where I know it’s OK to be different. Vive la différence, in fact.


Christina Hendricks in her 90s teen goth days


A Softer World: 1143

I thought I was going to get an interview next week for a paid IT intern role. I made the mistake of saying I wouldn’t be available 3 days a week because of my current job (which I fucking hate and want to leave) so now they’re not longer interested and are going to interview other applicants instead. I really wanted the job so I can gain experience in the IT industry as a uni graduate but now I’ve fucked that up. I’m not sure what to do… I’m so angry at myself.


Lauren Bacall (1924-2014)